Monday, August 27, 2012

Logan, Crafts and School

Logan's favorite thing recently is Mom's iPad.  He is addicted.  Seriously.  I am not exaggerating.  He looks for it as soon as he gets to our house and is completely engrossed in it for hours.  As annoying as that can be when you are trying to get his attention for anything else, it has been a great learning tool for him.  He is amazing with it!  The stuff this kiddo can do amazes me, especially considering he still barely talks!
 
 

A few months ago I found a super cute picture on Pinterest of a sewing machine cover and I thought it would be great to have one!  Mom always keeps my sewing machine covered with towel, but it always falls off then the sewing maching gets so dusty.  I don't use it all that often, but maybe I will now.  So I dusted off the sewing machine and got some cute fabric and viola...I  have a sewing machine cover now!  Yay!  I love it and I do think it turned out pretty good!
 
 
 
Today was Eric's first day of his senior year.  Geez.  I can't believe he's a senior already.  I know I say this a lot but he makes me feel so old!!  Mom wanted to get first day of school pictures, but Eric didn't want too (obviously!) so we just snapped a quick one while he was about to leave.
 
 
On a side note, I start grad school this week.  I will be getting my Masters in Nursing Administration.  I am only going to go to school part-time, since I will still be working full-time and I will be having a baby in the near future :)  The program will probably taking 3 years or so instead of 2 years.  I am excited to get started though!


Friday, August 3, 2012

Things that touch our lives...

Today I went to the memorial service for a baby that I was given the chance to care for this week.  She had a very short life and I am honored that I was able to share in it, for her and her family.  Her family is obviously devastated by her passing but were extremely grateful for the love and care she received in our NICU.  It was touching to hear from her family how the nurses and physicians in our NICU touched their lives as we tried to save their precious baby, and also how they felt how much we cared about them as they held their baby and let her go.

The family has older children, an 11 y.o. boy and a 14 y.o girl.  The first day that their baby sister was born, their father brought them into the NICU for a visit.  I was taking care of the baby while her sister was visiting.  She came up to the baby's bedside but was reluctant to get close or touch her new sister.  I encouraged her to place her hand inside the isolette and touch her sister.  She placed her hand beside her sister's hand and the sweet baby grabbed her finger.  I have never seen such a smile.  Today at the memorial the chaplain read a letter that each child wrote to their sister.  This moment was what big sister chose to write about.  She wrote that she will always have that special moment with her sister that she will always remember and cherish it.  Moments like this are why I know I chose the right career.  I, and the other nurses I have the privledge to work with, made a difference for this family, even though we were unable to save her life.  They are content now with the feeling that she is in a better place where she won't suffer.

There is no way to understand the death of a child and my heart will always ache for this family and their pain.  As much as it was painful to see the family suffer today and hear their stories, I am glad that I went to the memorial.  I know it meant a great deal to them to have some of our staff there to support them.  When I left, I picked up Logan at school and hugged him tighter than I have in awhile.  Life is so precious.  I have so many friends that are pregnant right now and many that have suffered similar losses, whether it be recently or years ago.  Losing a child at any time is such a tremendous loss and I can't begin to express how sorry I am for anyone that has lost a child.

I my own pregnancy, I think being a NICU nurse is a bit of a blessing and a curse.  I know a great deal about fetal development and at what gestation a fetus becomes a "viable life" and also what the chances of survival are at each week of gestation after that point.  I know so many things that can go wrong...but I also know that most things can be overcome, especially when you have neonatalogists and neonatal nurse practioners as fantastic as ours.  There are some things that can't be overcome and those are the things that scare me.  Pregnancy is one of those situations where I think the phrase "ignorance is bliss" rightly applies.  In my pregnancy I do not have that luxury.  Especially after all the struggle Shawn and I went through to get to a pregnancy at all, I worry daily that something will happen to destroy the current happy bubble I live in.

This was in the program from the memorial today.

Tiny Soul
When God send forth a tiny soul to learn the ways of earth,
A mother's love is waiting here, we call this wonder birth.
When God calls home a little soul and stills a fleeting breath,
A Father's love is waiting there, this too is birth not death.